RELATIONSHIP ADVICE

The idea of RELATIONSHIP when it involves the two opposite sex has been bastardized with so many movie scenes giving us the wrong picture. Little wonder why a lot of people fall for the wrong reasons.

There is no one way fit all when we talk about a meeting of two opposite sex that then lead into relationships but at the same time, some pictorial ideologies are not true. 

The right one won't always come with flowers and Valentine's love letters. They won't always come on romantic dates, movie nights out, or in a New Year's fireworks show. 

They won't always have to be the one who sleeps next to you in a high school field trip, the one who films you in a beach get-away, or the one whom you wanted to be your most awaited prom dance. They won't always come on a perfect night, watching the full moon beside you, on the top of your neighbor's roof.  They won't always come along with butterflies in your stomach, racing heartbeats, and blushing cheeks.

Sometimes, the right one comes beside you on your tiring day, and will just understand your silence. Sometimes, they are the ones who listen to how you call yourself a weakling every time you feel like saying it and don't shut you off for that but tell you that you're flawless. 

Other times, they come with a smile, validating your dreams not minding how much they sound impossible. They could be the one who tells a random boring-lecture-like story only to wait for you to be disturbed before they finally say it's just a made-up tale. Some other time they're the one who calls for no just cause but repeatedly checking up on you. They could be the ones who wouldn't be annoyed by your almost repeating stories about your favorite coldstone, who wouldn't mind your bad sides and the one you are most yourself with.

The right one won't always come in beautiful places, may not even propose on bended knees, won't have your ideal characteristics—but the one who will figure everything out with you. Sometimes, they are the ones you never dreamed of, but the ones you can never imagine living without.

Don’t be deceived by what you watch or see around you, there is no one way to fit all in terms of relationship, just be you and the guy/lady best for you will be drawn to you.

PLEASE SHARE WITH US IN THE COMMENT SECTION HOW YOU MEET YOUR PARTNER!

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  1. Anonymous9 March 2021 at 03:07

    I met my partner in a commercial bus.
    It happens that we coincidentally boarded same bus twice and we sat down close to each other on those two occasions. We exchanged number and today we are happy ��.

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